Jeaux Henry narrates their coming into black trans boihood, from their childhood in Atlanta to their life in New York City today. As the creator of Black Boi Complex, a virtual community for masculine-of-center black LGBTQI+ people, they have worked to foster interpersonal networks of support and care within black queer communities. They also discuss self-care, finding moments for joy and self-love, and navigating mental health and the healthcare system.